For a marriage to succeed, there must be trust, faith and loyalty between spouses. To me, these are the very foundations of the word "love." How can you say that you love your husband/wife if you do not trust him/her? If you trust your husband/wife that means you have faith in him/her. You will never doubt his abilities as the head of the family; and he would never ever doubt your abilities to care and tend to your children's need while he is away working so hard to bring bacon on the table.There is no such thing as perfect couple and marriage; misunderstanding happens, wrong decision has been made, but know that these are part of married life. Matt and I are not exempted to these, but because of our trust, faith and loyalty with each other, our love for each other are intact. There is no checking of pockets, cellphone, emails or even sniffing clothes. No blaming or nagging. If you find yourself doing these things, that is a clear indication that trust, faith and loyalty are not there; therefore there is no love in your relationship....and that is something to think and worry about...time for both of you to work things out if you are to save your marriage.
amen, ces. haven't experienced to sniff rhonnel's clothes not check his cp. it is because i trust him and vice versa. happy cc and may God always bless your family!
ReplyDeleteGaya ni Rossel, di ko ni che check ang wallet ni Rodney, tuloy di ko alam may pera palang nakatago ang kumag, hahaha! kundi pa siya ang nagsabi sa akin if I want some money. Ang hirap kaya ng di ka nag ta trust sa iyong hubby,nakakasakit ng ulo yun noh! parang laging baka may ibang woman kapag aalis na, kaya si Rodney, anytime gustong lumabas pinapayagan ko lang, I know in my heart, he loves me and the kids and he will never do anything to jeapardize our marriage. Lakas ng faith eh noh? at alam naman niya loyal ako sa kanya noh, aba eh di na ako makakahanap ng ibang kasing gwapo at kasing hunk nya noh! :) pinapasaya lang kita. Mwahhhh!
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hahaha, san ba sla makakahanap ng kasing loyal natin, Liz....mga Pinay wives lang....
ReplyDeletein fainess, guapo naman talaga asawa mo, Liz...di lang nag i smile....sabi mo nga masungit, lol....oh wag magselos....
Sel, ako rin di pumasok sa isip ko na mag sniff sa damit ng asawa ko....minsan nga dahil di ako nag che check ng pocket niya, makikita ko na lang sa washer my pera na nalalabhan, lol....buti na lang di nasira :-)
ReplyDeleteHahahaha kakatuwa usapan na ito lol. Pero tama ka ate Ces, mas matatag ata sa temptation ang mga pinay diba pero syempre meron namang mga madaling mahatak sa wrong direction so depende talaga if the three ingredients are well take care of sa relasyon.
ReplyDeletetama ka dyan, Rose...we still need these three to make our love and marriage stronger :-); thanks sa comment and visit ha.
ReplyDeleteNicely said Ces. Well in our case hubby has issues with his trust and since he needed a wife he pretended that he is a fine, nice understanding man.
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we really need those 3 plus love for building a beautiful relationship between husband and wives.
ReplyDeletethat's all true ate Ces, if you want your marriage to lasts keep posted on this =)..Hope you could visit my page too! Have a good day!
ReplyDeleteay nd ako mahilig mang check ng mga phones lol basta ayoko lang in some way kailangan din nila kasi ng privacy.
ReplyDeletei agree!
ReplyDeleteSo true, and I agree with you Te Ces. :)
ReplyDeletenaks naman te ces!! super agree with all that you said here :) am glad to know such loving couple thru CC.. at isa kayo sa mga couple na i look up to! keep the love alive te ces!
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