If you ask me if I am a "yes wife" without thinking, I'll say right away that "I am not." As I always say, our relationship is based on trust, loyalty, love and compromise that is why we are still together despite of our differences. I can do whatever I want and vice versa and there is no problem with that as long as it doesn't affect our marriage. But when it comes to big purchases like furniture, and appliances we would weight things up first as to whether it is a need or just want...then decide if it is a necessity or not. There are times, hubby can't say 'no' to me, lol....he is scared I might be upset if he says 'no' to my petty requests or lambing. He even told me one time that he cannot resists not saying 'yes' to me, and that made me feel guilty. And so after hearing that confession, I promised myself not to make frown face if he doesn't give in.Wednesday, October 13, 2010
CC: Yes Wife
If you ask me if I am a "yes wife" without thinking, I'll say right away that "I am not." As I always say, our relationship is based on trust, loyalty, love and compromise that is why we are still together despite of our differences. I can do whatever I want and vice versa and there is no problem with that as long as it doesn't affect our marriage. But when it comes to big purchases like furniture, and appliances we would weight things up first as to whether it is a need or just want...then decide if it is a necessity or not. There are times, hubby can't say 'no' to me, lol....he is scared I might be upset if he says 'no' to my petty requests or lambing. He even told me one time that he cannot resists not saying 'yes' to me, and that made me feel guilty. And so after hearing that confession, I promised myself not to make frown face if he doesn't give in.
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Hehehe! pareho tayo ate Cecile, I can do wahtever I want, pero syempre may limitation din di ba? Same as Rodney, he can do whatever he wants and I won't have any problem basta alam ko lang kugn ano ang ginagawa nya. Kapag medyo hindi practical eh NO ang sagot ko at nakikinig naman siya. On the other hand, may mga times na kapag may gusto akong gawin or bilhin, I would definitely ask for his decision not because I was afraid but because I need his input if it's practical to do so. Pwede naman tayong Yes wife, basta ba di lang makakasira sa ating relasyon di ba?? at kung worth our YES..
ReplyDeleteand that's the key to a successful relationship. we can be a yes wife sometimes or no and it depends on the situation. =)
ReplyDeleteowww... that was so sweet of your hubby..
ReplyDeleteGanyan din ako,dapat may limitation para iwas away lol.Sweet naman ni hubby mo ha,he can't say no to you^_^
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