My husband and I came from families with different background, cultures and traditions, but those didn't stop us from getting along very well as a couple. We managed to make our marriage work through constant compromise, supporting each other, understanding, trust, and most of all love. We always put God in between us when it comes to decision making including how we will raise our children.
Hubby grew up in a family who has strong faith in God and family ties. His family goes to church every Sunday and visits their grandparents afterward. They spent a lot of times together as family doing things that strengthens each other and family as a whole. They love outdoors...and things that stimulates their minds such as reading, going to museums, trip to historical sites to name a few. He is a good son who follows his parents advice till he get to be 18. He left home to attend college and that's where he learned how to live alone and tend for himself. He remains close to his parents even though he lives away from them. He visits his parents every so often and vice versa. Now that he is married, he still communicates with them once and sometimes twice a week over the phone. They are very often with each other.
As a father to my son, he is the opposite of what his Dad is when it comes to parenting and discipline. He is more of a soft and kindhearted person and I am the strict one, just like my FIL. A responsible person who do his best to sustain our needs. His family (us) comes first before anything else. We both belong to the same faith before we even met that is why we don't have problem raising our son. We both want Jacob to be close to God and be a God fearing person. And that is how he is now. Jake loves to go to church, learn about Jesus and be with is friends.
What about you? Would you like to share yours with us? If so, then join us every Wednesday on Couple's Corner.
Hi ces sorry ngayon lng naka bisita lola mo, grabe ka busy akong mga days na karon uy, nya gitapul sd ko ug blog ug bloghop ces hehehe.
ReplyDeleteMixed gyud ninyo duha si jake no. Loving hubby and father gyud imu bana,
Parang ang bait bait naman ni Matt. Hubby ko me itinatagong pagka evil hahaha.. Siguro napaka harmonious sa inyong house, walang sigawan, parang ang tahimik dahil pareho kayong mabait. Yup, we are both lucky to have married such wonderful men.
ReplyDeleteYour husband Te Ces is really a good man. You are lucky indeed to have him and you to him. I bet he is really a good father to your children too. God bless him and your family always!
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salamat sa comment ate, anyway yes were lucky to our husband, but there's some not, that so natural for filipino when it come for discipline he he ako nga lagi palo c nicole kaya cguro ata ayaw nya sa akin pag andito hubby sa bahay lagi nkabuntot sa knya minu minuto....Thats why am so thanksful so much for having him in our life...
ReplyDeleteay kay keith na blogs nka log in pla kc nag post ako ng opp dun haha pasaway
ReplyDeleteI agree with Grace, maswerte talaga tayo sa mga asawa natin dahil kahit iba tradition na kkinalakhan nila eh magkasundo pa rin tayo sa halos lahat ng bagay..
ReplyDeleteNga pala ate, yung nostalgia is not only old photos ang pwedeng ipost.. Pwede ring mga souveniers or gifts you get from friends and family.. As i've said, your option is unlimited as you can post anything as long as it reminds you of some nostalgic thoughts.. mwah!
you're lucky to have a loving husband and good father to Jacob.. congrats to both of you, raising Jacob well and with strong faith in God.
ReplyDeleteganu nga yata pag pareho ng faith,maganda nag pagsasama .you are both lucky o have each other
ReplyDeleteguys, di naman perfect ang family ko...may misuanderstanding din gaya ng sa iba....pero yun nga lang di naman kami natutlog hanggang di na so solve ang problema...saka openness ang kailangan...
ReplyDeleteparang napaka smooth sailing nga ng inyong marriage ate ces... very visible ang presence ni God sa relationship nyo... and that's because you've got a great hubby and he's got you... :) HERE'S MINE
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